Tuesday, July 21, 2009

How to Be a Real Man

By eHow Contributing Writer

Too often the depiction of a real man is one who bullies others, is opinionated, harsh and tough. But the overwhelming consensus is that this portrayal is actually less like a real man than many think. A real man doesn't use his fists or strength to define himself as such. A man should have the following qualities to be classified as a real man.

1. Treat women with respect. A real man doesn't abuse a woman physically or mentally. Same goes with treatment of children and animals. A real man doesn't need to prove himself by bullying.

2. Keep yourself well-groomed and physically fit. A real man keeps his hair neat and nails trimmed. A real man also stays in good physical shape.

3. Make your own fortune. A real man does not accept handouts or charity. He works hard to support himself and his family. If family money comes to him, a real man finds a way to increase that fortune not squander it.

4. Stay true to your word. A real man knows that keeping a promise is stronger than physical strength. Keep your word in all matters, business and personal. You will gain the respect a real man warrants.

5. Show your emotions. Most studies show women think a man who can as easily cry as laugh and is not afraid to show his emotions not only to her but to the world classifies a man as a real man.

6. Help with housework. A real man is not afraid to do laundry or dishes, change a diaper or run a vacuum cleaner.

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